Where does it all go?

This week, I have spent the following hours with my husband:

• Monday: 9 – 11 PM (2 hours)
• Tuesday: 8 – 11 PM (3 hours)
• Wednesday: 9 – 11 PM (2 hours)

In three days, I have spent 7 hours with my husband – less time, in fact, than I spend with my colleagues in ONE work day. I don’t understand how we are all supposed to be okay with this. What makes this alright?